You are sexy!
Forget about what the media says is sexy. What's important is what YOU think is sexy and how you express your sexiness.First, you have to convince yourself that you're sexy. Stop looking around and convincing yourself that you're the only person you see who isn't sexy. Sometimes, the best thing we can do for ourselves is ignore the little voice in our head.
I have a friend who always looks marvelous. Her hair looks great, she always wears her makeup and dresses nice. Her jewelry is simple, but nice, and always there. And one thing she is never without is her smile. I usually feel like a real schlump next to her. But she tells me she had to learn and practice - this look didn't come naturally or easily to her! All this time, I thought she was just a "natural" at this.
My suggestion is to find a friend who has a body type similar to yours but seems to be a "natural" at looking sexy and good all the time - then beg for lessons! They learned how to do it - so can you! I can tell you from experience that it doesn't have to be costly, but it does take time. Practice makes perfect, however, and the more you do it, the faster you will be able to slip into the groove - until you realize it's second nature and now you, too, are a "natural" at looking good and sexy all the time.
Now let's talk about the different types of sexy. Not everyone has the same definition of sexy. What you're striving for is YOUR definition of sexy - and once you have defined what is sexy for you and naturalized your look and attitude, you will attract others who have the same definition of sexy.
Sporty sexy
I know people who have the sporty sexy thing down to a science. They're active people - they play sports, they walk, they hike, they bike ride (this is so not me, although I admire it from afar). They have a developed an entire sexy look around their love of sports and activities and it looks great on them.Casual sexy
I know people whose hormones go into overdrive over a pair of jeans and a T-shirt, or a white cotton shirt worn over a lacy camisole. Casual sexy can work very well for an every-day look - it's the attitude behind it that really makes a difference.Bedroom sexy
This is a type of sexy that sometimes is worn in public, but works best if hinted at in public then put on full display in the bedroom. In my opinion, it's the most fun kind of sexy because you can just go all out when you're in the privacy of your home.Dress-up sexy
Face it - we like to dress up. And probably one of the most popular categories here at SexyLittleOutfits.com is the Costumes section. Halloween and costume parties give us an excuse to take it out in public, but if hurray for you if you like it in the bedroom, too!If you're into the Faires and other dress-up events, have a great time with it. Costumes allow us to be someone else while we're dressed up. If that someone wears a bustier and a "wench" dress, go for it with gusto!
